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I’m so glad this exists. Not every abortion is a hard choice and women need this kind of resource.
~A kind visitor in Australia
Thank you for letting me share my story. It is too much to keep inside.
~ A kind visitor in the U.S.
I feel seen and heard. I feel supported and understood. This website is a beautiful way to connect women who feel very lonely and vulnerable. Thank you.
~ A kind visitor in Massachusetts
I felt very welcomed when I read the reports, I'm grateful that this site exists.
~ A kind visitor in Brazil
When I was going through my abortion, I hadn't found many stories out there that reflected mine... especially ones that involved twin pregnancies. Reading these stories has been an immense help and support to me throughout my journey.
~ A kind visitor in Pennsylvania
Thank you to this website because I felt everyone’s love, I felt so alone but feel supported here. Which is helping me in my healing journey to know that I’m not alone and that I am not judged and only loved.
~ A kind visitor in New York
This site is such a blessing, thank you for helping those who had to make an impossible decision feel loved and less alone.
~ A kind visitor in Canada
Thank you for providing me comfort during this moment.
~ A kind visitor in Jew Jersey
This website has saved my mental health!!! The rhetoric surrounding abortion is traumatizing and this information really clarifies it. This website is a true gift.
~ A kind visitor in Canada
I came here today after feeling I was missing my UBB that never became. I was very sad and low, but with the love and warmth spread through the messages on here it lifted me up.
~A kind visitor in the UK
This site helped me more than words can express. I think it’s part of the reason this abortion was so much easier for me. I felt so guilty at first for having to have a second abortion, but I see how common it is and I think the stigma should end.
~ A kind visitor in Canada
Thank you for allowing a way for us to be able to share kind words to each other. Thank you for thinking of the ones who didn’t have anybody to talk to and so you thought of the idea for us to talk to each other. I think it’s a great idea.
~ A kind visitor in Las Vegas, Nevada
Reading the different messages on here has given me so much comfort, more than you could even imagine.
~A kind visitor in the United Kingdom
Thanks for having a safe space hopefully for people to vent and spread positivity.
~ A kind visitor in California
Thank you for allowing us to share our stories.
~ A kind visitor in the Pacific Northwest, U.S.
I’m forever grateful for coming across all of the stories on this website. This has helped me through a dark time. Possibly saved me.
~ A kind visitor in Delaware
This website helped me through the healing process, reading how other women had similar experiences. The stories helped comfort me because I felt totally alone. It’s been 2 months and I still feel sadness but I also feel like I made the right decision for my family.
~A kind visitor in Colorado
Being able to read stories of women who have been there and made the decision to terminate their pregnancies and express themselves is a treat. Thank you for providing a site for us to bond and uplift one another.
~ A kind visitor in Florida
Thank you for this website. We find comfort and love here sharing our experiences.
~ A kind visitor in Philippines
Thank you for being a place to share our stories and help us recover.
~ A kind visitor in Australia
Reading all of these stories has really helped me feel strong and empowered. Thank you.
~ A kind visitor in the United Kingdom
This website is a wonderful resource! I felt quite lonely in my experience and coming on here to read stories from other women around the globe was like receiving a massive virtual hug.
~ A kind visitor in the North of Ireland
I have held on to my secret for years, and I found your website last night in search of a place where I could share and release this experience. Thank you for providing this resource to women, it is so needed.
~ A kind visitor in Texas
I wish I had found this site years ago. To see others sharing love and acceptance helped me feel heard and validated . Thank you.
~ A kind visitor in Scotland
This website is wonderful! It has really helped me. I know I’m not alone. Thank you so much!
~Jennifer in Florida
This website has been a blessing to me. It helps me feel understood, and not guilty.
~A kind visitor in Pennsylvania.
Thank you for this spot where we share our feelings without being judged.
~ A kind visitor in South Africa
Thanks to your website I was able to feel normal and get insight into others experiences that helped me through my situation. Thank you for your work.
~ A kind visitor in France
I am a nurse at an urgent care clinic, but I am a nurse at an abortion clinic as well. None of my friends or family know about it, and I sometimes feel like I live a different life when I am in the abortion clinic.
I had an abortion at 21, I did it because I knew my life would be affected by having a baby. It wasn't an easy decision, but I knew it was the right choice for me.
Three years later and I decided on working at an abortion clinic. Only been doing this for four months now, and I have probably assisted 500 women in having an abortion. It is challenging and stressful, but I do it because I know what it's like.
I found your website today and I would like to say thank you for posting all these stories. It makes me feel good knowing that I am doing my part. I have held the hand of so many young girls and women while they go through a deeply emotional moment, and I hope they remember me as that nice young lady who supported them.
~A kind visitor in Kansas
I am a male who never thought about abortion, that was until my wife deciding on having one a few months ago. It's been tough on me, but reading all these stories has made me more comfortable with my wife's decision. Thank you for sharing these stories.
~ A kind visitor, location not given
I saw this site while googling to see if I was alone having more than 1 abortion and so happy I did come across this site as it really made me feel good. Thank you. It means a lot.
~A kind visitor in California
Reading through your stories has lifted a weight off my shoulders and I can feel the support all the way from the other side of the world. Thank you to all the women sharing their stories and being so brave and liberated.
~ A kind visitor in Australia
This page has definitely given me encouragement and hope. I strongly believe that I'm pregnant even though I have not tested. That is because I have been pregnant before twice and aborted both times. I'm 24 and not yet stable enough, so I will abort again because this pregnancy is not with someone who can support my child.
~ A kind visitor in Kenya
So blessed to have stumbled on your page. Will come here often and direct friends to it.
~A kind visitor in New York, US
A kind message to the people who run this site. Thank you for giving me peace and for lifting this this weight off my shoulders. I have been reading story after story and I now see that I am one of many women who made the the same choice I did. I want to tell you that I terminated a twin pregnancy at 15 weeks 2 days. A healthy pregnancy that occurred through a strong loving marriage and a pregnancy that was our very first. It was toughest decision I have ever made, and when it was over I knew I made the worst decision of my life. And now I find this place, a place full of love and hope. You truly have giving me tears of joy. Thank you for helping me understand that I am beautiful. The hatred towards myself is gone, and I am giving you all my love because you have made me a better woman and a better wife.
~ A kind visitor in Georgia, US
I just want to thank you for this website. My wife and I are in a difficult place with this decision. Finding this website has helped her. I can only be of so much support. Knowing there are woman out there she can lean on is wonderful. Thank you.
~B, Colorado, US
I’m so grateful to come across this page. I felt so ashamed due to the stigma of having an abortion, especially more than one coming from a Christian background. At 24 years old I just want to get my life on track and these stories really put my mind at ease that it’s possible and I’m not alone. You don’t know how much this truly means to women like me, so thank you for existing.
~A kind visitor in Georgia, US
I found this website because I was looking for stories similar to mine from women who had more than one abortion. It helped me feel better reading all the stories shared on this website. Thank you for creating this space where we can share our stories without being ashamed of our choice.
~A kind visitor in New-Caledonia
The humanity and grace extended to people who need to end a pregnancy is overwhelming. Thank you for this website.
~A kind visitor in California, US
It is people like you and the work you do that help women get through such a hard time. Thank you for what you do. It is so important.
~A kind visitor in Massachusetts, US.
I honestly thought I would take it all to the grave, but each person is different and there needs to be a place for people to share their stories. I realise now that I’m not alone, and I’m not a bad person, and I don’t need to let the decisions I made haunt me forever. Thank you for letting me share my story. I hope it helps someone.
~A kind visitor in Australia
I am grateful for you and all that you do. Your work helps many people. 🌻
~A kind visitor in Missouri, US
It just feels so good that somebody in the world cares! Thank you for doing this project! Reading stories on your website calms me. Thank you for creating the website. Thank you for making me feel less alone!
~A kind visitor in Slovenia
Thank you for existing. In a world where women are expected to feel shame, it makes it so difficult to share our stories which, in turn, makes the shame even worse. Sites like this prove that we are not alone. You are not alone.
~ A kind visitor in Canada
I feel much better now that I have shared my story with you. It is sad how difficult it still is to talk to your girl friends about abortions. In my big group of friends there is only one woman I know that has had an abortion. That's why I feel so grateful for websites like yours.
~A kind visitor in Finland
I just want to say thank you. And I love you.
~A kind visitor in Luxembourg
I do not have the words to thank you: for following up, for your caring kindness, and for the comfort you’ve brought to me. Your support has gotten me through stress, tears, and shame. It is my MOST earnest wish that someday I might bring even just one more woman the same comfort you brought me in this situation. How does one even show gratitude for something like that? THANK YOU.
~A kind visitor in Canada
I want to say thanks to the people who started this sight and for keeping it real and nonjudgmental. I am making a phone call in a few hours for an abortion, it will be my second abortion, and I am married with two kids. Never ever thought this would happen. Reading the stories helped me relax. Thank you!
~A kind visitor in Indiana, US
Thanks for what you're doing. I found it really hard to find any stories that were similar to ours when we were trying to decide what to do and I wish I had come across this website at the time. It's really great to find a platform to share our story and hopefully help others who find themselves in a similar situation.
~A kind visitor in Australia
Your website is so helpful and really makes me feel like I’m not a bad person. Thanks so much for taking the time to read my story and for your kind words. I’ve never felt I could tell anyone besides my boyfriend because you never know how people will judge you. You’ve made me feel so much better!
~A kind visitor somewhere in the world
I have read every article on the internet just to reassure myself that I am fine and that the two abortions did not affect my fertility.The stories on this website really helped me cope with myself because I saw that I was not alone.
~A kind visitor in the United States
I had a twin abortion one year ago today, and it still haunts me that I did it, but I have done my best on moving on. Somehow I found the stories about twin abortions on your site and I felt relieved that I wasn't alone with my choice. I don't have the gift of gab but I do want to say thank you for posting all these stories. I thank you for creating such a lovely place.
~A kind visitor somewhere in the world
I'm grateful for you and to God for I have came across your website. The story I've shared with you brings peace knowing that someone will feel better knowing that they're not alone, just like how I felt when I was reading stories of other women. Thank you for your kind words and your love.
~ A kind visitor in South Africa
A few days after my abortion and I found a story on this site titled "The choice is ultimately mine as it's my body and I am not ready yet." She wrote this story in November, and here I was reading it 7 months later feeling like she was writing it just for me. She says in her story "Ultimately, the decision against keeping it was led by our own desire to continue living our lives carefree for just a little while longer." I felt so much relief from knowing that my reason for abortion was also the same reason for another woman.
~A kind visitor in the United States
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH for creating this website. I have been crying for the last couple weeks knowing that I was having a second child, but now I am crying with relief knowing that i'm not. You seriously took a ton of weight off my shoulders :)
~A kind visitor in Oregon, US
Thank you for giving space for this. Reading everyone’s stories help me tremendously.
~A kind visitor somewhere in the world
This is a thank you message. I I'm writing this from down the street from a Planned Parenthood as I have my second abortion appointment in 45 minutes. I was really close to not wanting to do this, crying as I'm writing this, and thankfully I found this website and now I know I'm going to have the courage on walking on in and getting this done. Thank you for having this website.
~A kind visitor in the United States
Thank you so much! Reading your website made me feel so much love and understanding from the other side that I wasn’t able to feel from the guilt. You understood me so well and for that I want to thank you. I’m so glad I came across your website. Much love!
~A kind friend somewhere in the world