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My husband and I found out that we are having twins, and after 6 days of back and forth we have decided on abortion. I was on the phone an hour ago making an appointment. Right now I know I am 9 weeks 2 days, but hopefully I can get in before the 11 week mark.

This is like the worst decision we could have made, but we already have two children and taking care of another two would be a drastic change for all of us.

This was an unplanned pregnancy. It was wanted, but now we just have to look at the big picture and choose what the best option is.

This is also my second abortion, but my first one was when I was 19 and and that was 11 years ago. I kind of understand what is going to happen, but this abortion is going to be an emotional nightmare for quit a while.

Planned Parenthood told me that twin abortions are common. I also found out that they charge the same price ($590.00). I guess I should be thankful?

Has anybody on here had a twin pregnancy? How did you deal with your emotions? Are you okay with your decision? Any help is greatly appreciated.

I am just doing what I think is best for my family.

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Hi there, from a medical standpoint having an abortion with twins is no different from a regular abortion. From an emotional standpoint I can understand it feels very different. I hope you get the support and love you need. I’m sending you love and peace for your difficult time.

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You're doing this to make life better for the children you already have. This isn't the right time for you and your husband to take on the burden of twins, especially with the problems Covid creates for pregnant women and infants! Your body, your choice. Gentle hugs for you -- you'll get through this and be stronger for it.

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My first abortion was a twin abortion. I had HG and was miserable for weeks. It was an easy decision to get it out of me I was tired of feeling so miserable and not being able to even drink water.

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I went in for my surgical yesterday and discovered I was carrying twins, too. If anything, it made me more confident in my decision.

Though termination was what I wanted 110%, I won’t lie that there wasn’t still a little part of me that was sad that I’d be terminating two, not just one.

Medically, it’s the same procedure and you’re still charged the same (they don’t charge you extra for the second embryo hehe) The only difference is they’ll do an additional ultrasound once they’re done to make sure everything has been removed.

What you are feeling is so completely natural. I was definitely thrown for a loop when they told me. But I am happy and confident in my decision.

I won’t say I’m not feeling sad and grieving in my own way (I think abortion, no matter how many embryos or how far along you are) is a heartbreak to go through no matter what the situation is, but please know you are not alone!