Apr 9 Apr 9 "We took it for granted and never realized that our parents had to fight for this right and that in so many countries it's not available safely." Sharing Truth Multiple Abortions, Netherlands, Men's Experiences, Partner Experience “An abortion means that you let go of possible future. Even when I was very sure about the decision and relieved after the operation, there was also sadness and mourning about it. The sadness about not being able to enjoy this other future, too!” Read. more.