Oct 23 Oct 23 "It was the gift of abortion that helped us plan our family." Sharing Truth Three Abortions, Oklahoma, U.S., Men's Experiences, Partner Experience “Love and kindness to all the women who have had an abortion or will have an abortion. I am a 38 year old male, and I have been married for 16 years now to a lovely woman, and we ourselves have chosen abortion on two different occasions.” Read more.